(I don't care what anything says about 'self-identifying' as a bear, its about a look).
This is why I am not interested. When the bear events started, the "look" was about facial hair/body hair, not size. The movement is about to implode because it's become exclusionary. It's always hard to identify what turns any of us on sexually, but when I've attended the bear events, 75-80% of the men were not my cup of tea. I just really don't like group events.
I have a circle of friends and acquaintances that I adore. To be in town with them for some quality time would be wonderful. But, I don't need an event to do that.
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Date: 2010-02-18 04:15 am (UTC)This is why I am not interested. When the bear events started, the "look" was about facial hair/body hair, not size. The movement is about to implode because it's become exclusionary. It's always hard to identify what turns any of us on sexually, but when I've attended the bear events, 75-80% of the men were not my cup of tea. I just really don't like group events.
I have a circle of friends and acquaintances that I adore. To be in town with them for some quality time would be wonderful. But, I don't need an event to do that.